The destroyer of the Friendship
What was experienced by us for the sake of the friend sometimes tiring and annoying, but so that made the friendship have the beautiful value. The friendship often served several ordeals, but the true friendship could overcome the ordeal in fact grew together consequently. The friendship was not established automatically but needed the process that was long as the iron sharpened the iron, so the friend sharpened his friend. The friendship was influenced with various experiences liked and the sorrow, was entertained - was hurt, was paid attention to - was disappointed, was heard - was ignored, was helped - was refused, but all this never deliberate was carried out with the aim of hatred. A friend will not hide the mistake to avoid the dispute, precisely because of giving him he summoned up courage reprimanded the way it is. The friend had not wrapped the blow in the kiss, but stated what was very painful with the aim of his friend of wanting to change. The process from the friend became the friend needed maintenance efforts from loyalty, but not when we needed new help we had the motivation looked for attention, help and the love statement from the other person, but precisely he took the initiative of giving and bringing about what was needed by his friend. His yearning was to become part of the life of his friend, because of not having the friendship that was preceeded with the egoistic attitude. Everyone must need the true friend, but not everyone succeeded in getting him. Many also the person who enjoyed the beauty of the friendship, but was also that like that was destroyed because of being betrayed by his friend.
Several matters often became the destroyer of the friendship in part:
- The problem of the business
- Each other were not open
- Lose the belief
- The change in the feeling between the opponent of the kind
- Not Loyal
But the destroyer of this friendship succeeded in being broken by friends who were tested by the authenticity of his motivation.
Had one true friend more valuable than one thousand friends who considered himself important.
“In the glory period, the friend knew us.”
In the suffering, we knew our friend.
Remembered when the last time you were in the difficulty.
Who that was by you?
Whoever loved you when you felt you were not loved?
Whoever wanted together you at the time of not any that could be given by you?
“They your friend.”
Appreciated and maintained always your friendship with them.

















